In most audits we run, the same thing happens around day three. We pull the list of sources the assistants cited across the whole prompt set, sort it, and find two or three Reddit threads sitting near the top. Threads the brand has never read. Sometimes threads about the brand.
For product recommendations, assistants lean heavily on places where people argue with each other about things they bought with their own money. That is not a quirk. It is the most sensible thing they could do, and it is exactly what a careful human researcher does.
The problem is that the average brand's instinct on discovering this is to go and post, and the average brand gets removed within the hour.
Why these threads carry so much weight
Three reasons, and understanding them tells you how to behave.
The writers have nothing to sell. That is the whole value. The moment a thread reads like marketing, it loses the property that made it worth citing.
They are specific. A review site says a product is comfortable. A thread says it was fine for eight months and then the seam went at the left heel and support replaced it without arguing. The second is quotable in an answer and the first is not.
They are argued over. Multiple people, disagreeing, with votes attached. That looks a lot like corroborated evidence.
Find the threads that matter before you do anything else
Ask your prompt set. Note every community that comes up in citations. Do this across several assistants, because they do not lean on the same places.
Then read. Not skim. Read the top ten threads in each of those communities, including the ones that have nothing to do with you, and read the sidebar rules while you are there.
You are looking for three things. What people in this category actually complain about, which is usually not what your marketing thinks they complain about. Which brands get defended and why. And what tone gets upvoted, because it varies enormously between communities.
The rules that get enforced
Every community has written rules and unwritten ones. The written ones are usually about self-promotion ratios, flair and disclosure. The unwritten one is simpler: people can tell.
A few things that will get you removed, in rough order of how quickly. An account with no history posting about your product. A first comment that mentions your brand. Links in a first post. Language that reads like a product page, especially adjectives in threes. Answering a question nobody asked with a recommendation that happens to be you.
A few that will not. A founder account, with the affiliation stated, answering a technical question in the category without mentioning the product. The same account, later, mentioning the product when it is directly relevant, with the disclosure repeated. Posting a spec or a test result someone asked for.
Disclose every single time, not once. People land on individual comments, not on your profile.
What to actually post
The most valuable thing you can contribute is the thing only you know. You make the product. You know why the fabric behaves that way in humidity, what the actual failure rate is, why the cheaper version costs less and where that shows up after a year.
Answer that kind of question and say who you are. If the honest answer is that your product is not right for the person asking, say that. It costs you one sale and buys you the only thing that matters in these places, which is that people stop treating your account as an ad.
Do not go in with a campaign. Go in with a founder who reads the category and replies when they can help. It is slower than every other tactic on the list and it lasts longer than all of them, because a well-received comment can sit in citations for a year.
Expect this to be a person, not a process
The uncomfortable part of this advice is that it does not delegate well. The reason it works is that a real person with real knowledge is answering. Hand it to someone who has never used the product and it reverts to marketing, and the community notices faster than you would believe.
Twenty minutes, twice a week, from someone senior enough to know the answers. That is the actual ask.
What does not work
Agencies posting from aged accounts on your behalf. It gets discovered, and when it does you end up as the subject of a thread rather than a participant in one. That thread then becomes a source assistants read about your brand, which is the single worst outcome available from this channel.
Buying upvotes, seeding fake questions to answer, and asking your team to post from personal accounts without disclosure all fail the same way and for the same reason.
Where to start
- Run your prompt set and list every community cited.
- Read for a week before posting anything.
- Set up one account, in your own name, with your affiliation in the bio.
- Answer three questions where you can be genuinely useful and where you do not mention your product at all.
- Only after that, answer one where you do.